I was about 5 yrs. old when I dumped a pitcher of water on a sheet of blackened, overdone cookies. Somehow I was responsible for pulling them out of the oven. Was it because the sheet was hot and my first reaction was to cool it down? Or, was it just my gut reaction to return moisture to these blackened and abandoned, could-have-been delicious cookies? I think it was the latter.
That is where it all began; the quest for a perfect cookie. I have tasted a lot of cookies in my day, and with each experience I came closer to finding the perfect one. Keep in mind, that journey was not always enjoyable. Have you ever eaten a cookie so laden with baking soda that you could feel your teeth being cleaned in the process of chewing/crushing it? How about biting into a cookie just to get a visit from the tooth fairy the next morning? And the worst scenario, biting into a cookie and anticipating chocolate chips only to taste raisins? Ever hear of wolves in sheep's clothing?
Even when you do get a pretty good cookie figured out, there are so many ways to make a cookie. I could go on and on about preferences, textures, margarin vs. butter, cakey vs. flat, chewy vs. crunchy, and the list goes on. So many preferences and so many different ways to make them.
I was able to make the cookie that was perfect for my preferences, thanks to a large amount of research (ok, eating a lot of cookies) and recipes from books, friends, family members, with some modification. I am grateful for that experience. The high sand the lows. For the most part, many enjoy my cookies and that makes me even more happy!
My preference is relatively flat, crisp outside, chewy center. I enjoy the compliment of the semi-sweet chocolate chips with the sweet sugary taste of the cookie. I like a cookie that can hold its own structurally, but once the walls are broken down, nothing but love and deliciousness is set free...a moment of the taste buds first finding a soul mate.

So, whenever I am given "advice" on how to make cookies, in my mind I think, "I don't need advice on making cookies when I am making my dreams come true with every batch." - well something like that. I have been down the road of passion, hope, love, and betrayal. I have tasted the best and possibly the worst. So, do not come to me telling me about the recipe I would "LOVE" without knowing my story. Do not eat my cookies and then tell me "Oh, you need to try this other recipe that is out of this world!" Well, first off, you're welcome for the cookies that took me my lifetime to perfect, but I am willing to entertain this discussion because clearly these did not meet your preferences.
Ok, sorry for the rant. I support those that have other preferences, let's just be respectful of each other's. Lines often blur between preferences and good recipes. Good recipes are only good for me if they line up according to my preferences. So, who ultimately decides what a good cookie is? Well, for me, I decide that. I found what works best for me, my family, and many friends. That is what cookies are all about!